As We Step Out- Parenting, Unschooling, and more

My poem about motherhood and how easily people are ready to judge, comment on what and how you do things in life.. Sigh. I just wish people bring in more compassion in their attitude and try to appreciate what the other person is doing. You are a CA, you don't work? Oh such a shame, why did you learn? You are a SAHM, you don't earn, Oh that's sad, Musnt't you yearn? You are a mother So many things to bother, Well that's life Your identity doesn't matter! You have BG twins! That's a win-win.. But why don't you add up Yet another kin? Your kids go-to school You have plenty of time You don't need a house help Don't you whine! You are a rebel, New ways you sight Why can't you just Obey without a fight? Identity, individuality Why all the hype? What, when, how- Follow the stereotype! All these voices Echoing around My path, my ways Darling I have found.. Praises, prizes, money, fame Nothing I need Ackn...

Relationships.... well they ain't simple and straightforward! We love our people, we love their company. We know, we acknowledge- deep down under there is only one sentiment of well being and love but many times we encounter statements, questions which cross the boundaries/ go overboard and it  hurts you to the core! A woman is bombarded with such statements especially after she gets married and after the kids it just is a different story altogether! I have tried to compile top 6 such statements/ questions which most of us as women/ mothers would have come across (at least in India)! 1. Its been a year you guys are married, we are waiting for our grand children! Well, do we get married only to have children? Marriage is having fun together, enjoying each other's company, exploring places, understanding each other. Is there is a right time to have children? absolutely no, as this decision is no depends on the number of years you guys are in a relationship, but on how wel...